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We cannot choose where we start out in life.
Jól szeretni – self-awareness, relationship and family coaching with Nikolett Tóth-Boros
But we are free to decide where we are heading, and what we pass on.
A warm welcome to my website!
I am Nikolett Tóth-Boros, the creator of the “Jól szeretni” (Loving Well) approach.
I believe that through self-awareness and a deeper understanding of our own story, we can shape not only our own future, but also create a safer, more loving starting point for the generations that follow.
Where are you on your own journey right now?
If you feel the time has come to stop drifting and start shaping your life — and the legacy you will one day pass on — through conscious decisions, you are in the right place.
With the “Jól szeretni” approach I help you reach your goal – whatever stage of life you are in
The path of the “Jól szeretni” approach
- Self-awarenessUnderstanding inherited patternsChoosing a partner consciously
- A relationship that worksPreparing for a shared futureSupport in becoming a parent
- Strengthening the relationshipA harmonious family lifePassing on a positive legacy
My mission
I believe that recognising family patterns is not about the mistakes of the past, but about the possibilities of the future. Self-awareness helps us build relationships in which it feels good to love and to be loved. For me this is not merely a profession, but a matter of the heart.
Read moreA few words from me
If you would like to hear in person what the “Jól szeretni” approach is about, watch this short video.
People I have worked with
Soon you will read here the stories of those who set out towards a more conscious, more loving future with the “Jól szeretni” approach.
Self-Planner
This four-page workbook helps you get a clearer picture of where you are on your journey right now, and where you might go next. Give me your email address and I will send it to you straight away.
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Because a more loving future is shaped by the conscious decisions we make today. Take the first step, and yours could be the next story that truly turns around.
Frequently asked questions
I have collected the most common questions. If yours is not among them, do write — I am happy to answer.
Who is coaching for?
For anyone who wants to shape their life or their relationships more consciously — whether it is a stuck point in self-awareness, questions about a relationship, understanding family patterns, or preparing to become a parent. You do not need a “big problem”: the wish to change something is enough.
Is coaching the same as therapy?
No. Coaching focuses on the present and the future: it accompanies you in reaching your goals, making decisions and growing consciously. It does not constitute medical, psychotherapeutic or health care — if that is what you need, please turn to a physician or a psychotherapist.
How does an online session work?
Every session takes place over a video call, from the comfort of your home — from anywhere in the country or indeed the world. After booking you receive a link that you simply click at the agreed time. An individual session is 60 minutes, couples and family sessions are 90.
A single session or a package – which should I choose?
If you are looking for the answer to one specific question, or want to try it out first, a single session is a good choice. If you are after deeper, lasting change, the package (5 sessions that build on each other) offers an accompanied process at a better price. With a package you only book the time of the first session; we agree the rest together.
How do I book a session and how do I pay?
You choose your time from the calendar on this website, and payment is made securely by bank card through the Barion system. Your card details never reach me.
What if I need to cancel?
You can cancel or reschedule free of charge up to 24 hours before the session. For cancellations within that window, or for not attending, the full fee is payable.
Does what we discuss stay confidential?
Yes. Everything you share during our sessions remains entirely confidential. A safe, non-judgemental atmosphere is one of the most important foundations of our work together.